29 Jul

This past summer, I designed and delivered a body-based performance program for Google's DevWeek — a modular series equipping high-performing professionals with science-backed, body-based strategies to optimize their stress response, energy, and cognitive performance. The goal: transform not just how these teams work, but how they feel while doing it. I ran two separate workshops across Google's US and EMEA/APAC teams: Power Rhythms and The Stress Reset. Resilience Workshop: Power Rhythms Most productivity strategies focus on time management, but real performance is about energy management. This workshop teaches participants how to work with their body's natural, internal rhythms — circadian, ultradian, and respiratory — to optimize focus, creativity, and endurance without burnout. View the workshop page → Stress Management Workshop: The Stress Reset Why do animals recover from stress so quickly while humans remain stuck in chronic tension, despite having similar stress and relaxation systems? This workshop explores the science of the stress response and equips participants with simple, effective tools to reset their nervous system in real time. Drawing from biology, neuroscience, and psychology, we uncover how movement, breath, and reframing stress can help us regain control, remove self-judgment, and build resilience. View the workshop page → The Results Both sessions received the highest ratings of any program offered during DevWeek: What...

Every so often a client says some version of this: "This used to be easy. Why does it feel so hard now?" Same workload as five years ago. But now a demanding week costs the whole weekend, not just a tired Friday evening. Their first assumption is always the same: something's wrong with them. Maybe they're not cut out for it anymore. BUT there's a simpler explanation, and it's not psychological. It's physiological. Your body has a stress-response system called allostasis — it releases cortisol, adjusts your heart rate, redirects energy, every time demands rise. That's the system doing exactly what it's built to do. The catch: every one of those responses carries a cost. And when there's no full recovery in between (years of late nights, hard workouts, travel, screens, coffee, alcohol) that cost accumulates. Their system is simply operating under different constraints than it used to. Same ambition, different biology. I went deeper on the concept of allostatis — including five concrete ways to start lowering it — in the below article. Chronic stress: why your baseline shifts over time Something shifts around 10-15 years into a demanding career. The same week that used to cost you a tired Friday evening now costs you the whole weekend....

If most of your day happens in your head — replaying conversations, rehearsing meetings that haven't happened yet, narrating your own life as you live it — you're not alone. Being in the body is the practical alternative: a trainable skill of shifting attention from thought to physical sensation, and it can calm an overactive nervous system in seconds. I've become obsessed with this idea of spending less time in my head, and more time in my body. So much of why we feel stuck, confused, and overwhelmed, I think, comes down to one thing: we've lost the ability to feel our bodies. Now, I know that sounds so abstract. So floaty. So "that's cute but I've got places to be people to see, ain't got time for this." I get it. For too long, the language around all of this (energy, presence, "your body holds the wisdom") has lived almost exclusively in spiritual and wellness spaces. Beautiful language for some people. But it's also exactly the kind of language that makes a rational, skeptical mind check out before it's even given the underlying idea a fair hearing. And that's a real loss, because the idea itself holds up fine without any of that language. So I'm...

Your nervous system is constantly, outside of your conscious awareness, scanning your thoughts, body and environment for cues of safety and cues of threat.This process is called neuroception, and it determines whether your system tips into activation or settles into recovery.In this piece, I'll walk through the three perceptual systems that feed into nervous system safety, and show you exactly how to use them to shift state,  even in the middle of a stressful afternoon.  Earlier this week, I lost my footing a little.I had coaching sessions stacked back to back, it was 33 degrees here in Lisbon, and I'd just come in from being outside. I could feel myself tipping into a familiar state: overwhelmed, rushing, moving too fast, being hard on myself for feeling like a literal hot mess. I threw some food together (scrambled eggs and toast with Nutella, my girlfriend was appalled, I blame it on the heat) and ate it standing up, while quickly checking my emails.Now, I help people regulate their nervous systems for a living. And there I was, right before a session, wolfing down my lunch, my body tense, completely activated and irritated for no good reason.But somewhere in the middle of it,...

Place two fingers on your neck right now. Feel your pulse. Now take a slow inhale — and notice if it speeds up, just slightly. Then exhale — and notice if it slows back down. That's not random. That's your nervous system working exactly as it should. Your heart rate is supposed to fluctuate Most people assume a healthy heart beats like a metronome. Steady. Consistent. Unchanging. The opposite is true. A heart that responds (speeding up on the inhale and slowing down on the exhale) is a healthy, flexible heart. A heart that beats at exactly the same pace regardless of what you're doing is actually a sign of a nervous system that's lost its adaptability. The phenomenon behind this is called respiratory sinus arrhythmia (RSA). The name sounds like a problem, it's not. It's an incredibly important feature. On every inhale, your heart rate rises slightly. On every exhale, it falls. Over and over, with every single breath, all day long (whether you notice it or not.) Heart Rate Variability: a key marker of nervous system health Heart rate variability (HRV) is the measurement of this fluctuation, specifically, the variation in time between consecutive heartbeats. RSA is one of the key mechanisms driving HRV. The more your heart rate...

If you've ever caught yourself looping on the same thought for the fifteenth time — replaying a conversation, spiralling on something you can't change, that low-grade mental noise that just won't quiet down — you already know that "just stop thinking about it" doesn't work. The harder you try, the louder it gets. Triangle breathing is what I reach for in those moments, to stop rumination: Inhale Hold Exhale Three equal sides. It's the technique I use most often, on myself and with clients, when the thinking has gone loopy. And the reason it works has everything to do with rhythm. I made a guided practice for it, which you'll find further down. First, the why. Rumination is a rhythm problem When you're stuck in a mental loop, two things are likely happening at the same time. Your thinking is on a treadmill. Same thought, same scenario, same circular logic, over and over. Your breathing has lost its rhythm. It's gone shallow. Gone fast. Gone irregular. The exhales cut short. The next inhale piles up on top of the last one. You probably haven't noticed any of this, because all your attention is on the thought. These two things aren't separate. They're feeding each other. Now, thoughts can...

Sometimes you can't step away. You're in the middle of a meeting You've just opened an email you weren't ready for Your kid is melting down and so are you You can feel the stress climbing (chest tightening, breath shortening, mind starting to spiral) and you have maybe ten seconds before you need to respond to whatever's in front of you. This is exactly the kind of moment the one-breath brake is designed for. One full breath cycle: One deep inhale A brief hold at the top One long exhale A pause at the bottom This simple breathing pattern can be enough to shift your physiology in the moment and help you find some stress relief. I made a short guided practice you'll find further down. But first, what's actually happening in those few seconds. Why one breath can shift your physiology There's a temptation to think a single breath can't possibly do anything. If you've ever been told to "take a deep breath" in a moment of stress and felt nothing change, you know the feeling. The reason that advice often falls flat is that one random deep breath doesn't do what people think it does. A big inhale right into the chest, taken on its own,...

If you've never paid much attention to your exhale, you're in good company. Most of us focus on the inhale — the deep breath we reach for when we're trying to calm down. But the exhale is where the actual relaxation happens. Lengthening the exhale activates your vagus nerve, slows your heart rate, and shifts your nervous system out of "activation mode." It's probably the single highest-leverage thing you can do for your breathing. I made a 15-minute guided practice for it, which you'll find further down. First, the why. Why the exhale is your nervous system's built-in brake Every breath cycle has two phases. The inhale is active. It requires muscle effort — your diaphragm contracts, your ribs lift — and it gently raises your heart rate. The sympathetic nervous system ("fight or flight") fires a little more strongly here. The exhale is meant to be the opposite. Passive. Releasing. Effortless. Your diaphragm relaxes, your lungs deflate, and your heart rate dips. This is your parasympathetic system ("rest and digest") doing its thing — and the vagus nerve, the long wandering nerve that runs from your brainstem to your gut, is the main pathway it travels through. This is wired into your physiology—for all of...

I'm Charlotte, a breath and nervous system coach working with professionals on focus, sleep, and emotional resilience. People often assume my job is teaching them to breathe a specific way every day for the rest of their lives. It's not (or at least not quite!) This piece is about what breath coaching actually changes, and why the daily practice is rarely the point. What people expect when they sign up for breath coaching The goal of breath coaching isn't to build a lifelong daily breathwork practice. Well, not necessarily. That might sound weird coming from a breath coach. But hear me out. When people sign up for coaching, they usually think the goal is some version of: Learn the techniques → build a daily practice → breathe slowly for 20 minutes a day forever And sure, that's part of it. The techniques work. The practice helps. Most clients keep some version of it going long after we're done because they like it. BUT what actually shifts is rarely the breathwork itself. It's everything that happens because of it. Three clients, three very different shifts One client, Jack, a commercial director, came into the program with bad sleep, anxiety he'd come to accept as "just how I am," and this deep...

Expanded awareness is one of the simplest — and most underrated — tools for nervous system regulation. It takes seconds, requires nothing, and has a direct physiological effect. Here's how it works and why I'm obsessed with it. I've long been fascinated by this concept of 'expanded awareness.' Fundamentally, most of us walk around in a chronically narrowed state of awareness — tunnel-visioned, locked onto whatever we're doing or thinking about. When your awareness is contracted like this, you're essentially living on railway tracks of habit. You can't get off the track because you're so tunnel-visioned. (Like you, looking at your screen right now.) Expanded awareness is what happens when you stop doing that narrowing. It's so simple, almost suspiciously simple. Like right now, I can ask you to become aware of the space above you, and the space around you. Let go of your attention on these words and on the screen, soften your gaze, and let your awareness expand as far as possible in all directions. If you notice something shift when you try that, even subtly, that’s expanded awareness. Another way I love doing this is by using sounds. Notice the furthest away sound that you could hear in any direction. Let your sense of hearing...