18 Aug

In March 2026, I ran 5 corporate resilience workshops Power Rhythms across 3 days at Programme Octave — a leadership conference organized by Danone, L'Oréal, and other partner companies, bringing together participants from 50+ countries. Octave's official tagline is "Any major transformation begins with a self-transformation" — and that's exactly the gap my Power Rhythms resilience workshop was built to address. Companies invest heavily in transforming teams, cultures, and processes, but the people inside those systems? They are rarely taught how their own biology works, or how to work with it rather than push through it. What we did in the resilience workshop Power Rhythms Power Rhythms is built around one idea: Focus, energy, and decision-making aren't flat — they move in biological rhythms, and most of us are never taught what those rhythms are or how to use them. The session covered three of these rhythms, in the order they show up across a working day: Circadian rhythm — getting natural light before screen light in the morning, to anchor the body's 24-hour clock and set up energy for the rest of the day. Ultradian rhythm — working in roughly 90-minute cycles, with a deliberate movement or restorative break at the end of each one,...

29 Jul

This past summer, I designed and delivered a stress management and resilience program for Google's DevWeek — a modular series equipping high-performing professionals with science-backed, body-based strategies to optimize their stress response, energy, and cognitive performance. The goal: transform not just how these teams work, but how they feel while doing it. I ran two separate workshops across Google's US and EMEA/APAC teams: Power Rhythms and The Stress Reset. Resilience Workshop: Power Rhythms Most productivity strategies focus on time management, but real performance is about energy management. This workshop teaches participants how to work with their body's natural, internal rhythms — circadian, ultradian, and respiratory — to optimize focus, creativity, and endurance without burnout. View the workshop page → Stress Management Workshop: The Stress Reset Why do animals recover from stress so quickly while humans remain stuck in chronic tension, despite having similar stress and relaxation systems? This workshop explores the science of the stress response and equips participants with simple, effective tools to reset their nervous system in real time. Drawing from biology, neuroscience, and psychology, we uncover how movement, breath, and reframing stress can help us regain control, remove self-judgment, and build resilience. View the workshop page → The Results Both sessions received the highest ratings of any program offered...

Every so often a client says some version of this: "This used to be easy. Why does it feel so hard now?" Same workload as five years ago. But now a demanding week costs the whole weekend, not just a tired Friday evening. Their first assumption is always the same: something's wrong with them. Maybe they're not cut out for it anymore. BUT there's a simpler explanation, and it's not psychological. It's physiological. Your body has a stress-response system called allostasis — it releases cortisol, adjusts your heart rate, redirects energy, every time demands rise. That's the system doing exactly what it's built to do. The catch: every one of those responses carries a cost. And when there's no full recovery in between (years of late nights, hard workouts, travel, screens, coffee, alcohol) that cost accumulates. Their system is simply operating under different constraints than it used to. Same ambition, different biology. I went deeper on the concept of allostatis — including five concrete ways to start lowering it — in the below article. Chronic stress: why your baseline shifts over time Something shifts around 10-15 years into a demanding career. The same week that used to cost you a tired Friday evening now costs you the whole weekend....

If most of your day happens in your head — replaying conversations, rehearsing meetings that haven't happened yet, narrating your own life as you live it — you're not alone. Being in the body is the practical alternative: a trainable skill of shifting attention from thought to physical sensation, and it can calm an overactive nervous system in seconds. I've become obsessed with this idea of spending less time in my head, and more time in my body. So much of why we feel stuck, confused, and overwhelmed, I think, comes down to one thing: we've lost the ability to feel our bodies. Now, I know that sounds so abstract. So floaty. So "that's cute but I've got places to be people to see, ain't got time for this." I get it. For too long, the language around all of this (energy, presence, "your body holds the wisdom") has lived almost exclusively in spiritual and wellness spaces. Beautiful language for some people. But it's also exactly the kind of language that makes a rational, skeptical mind check out before it's even given the underlying idea a fair hearing. And that's a real loss, because the idea itself holds up fine without any of that language. So I'm...

Your nervous system is constantly, outside of your conscious awareness, scanning your thoughts, body and environment for cues of safety and cues of threat.This process is called neuroception, and it determines whether your system tips into activation or settles into recovery.In this piece, I'll walk through the three perceptual systems that feed into nervous system safety, and show you exactly how to use them to shift state,  even in the middle of a stressful afternoon.  Earlier this week, I lost my footing a little.I had coaching sessions stacked back to back, it was 33 degrees here in Lisbon, and I'd just come in from being outside. I could feel myself tipping into a familiar state: overwhelmed, rushing, moving too fast, being hard on myself for feeling like a literal hot mess. I threw some food together (scrambled eggs and toast with Nutella, my girlfriend was appalled, I blame it on the heat) and ate it standing up, while quickly checking my emails.Now, I help people regulate their nervous systems for a living. And there I was, right before a session, wolfing down my lunch, my body tense, completely activated and irritated for no good reason.But somewhere in the middle of it,...

Place two fingers on your neck right now. Feel your pulse. Now take a slow inhale — and notice if it speeds up, just slightly. Then exhale — and notice if it slows back down. That's not random. That's your nervous system working exactly as it should. Your heart rate is supposed to fluctuate Most people assume a healthy heart beats like a metronome. Steady. Consistent. Unchanging. The opposite is true. A heart that responds (speeding up on the inhale and slowing down on the exhale) is a healthy, flexible heart. A heart that beats at exactly the same pace regardless of what you're doing is actually a sign of a nervous system that's lost its adaptability. The phenomenon behind this is called respiratory sinus arrhythmia (RSA). The name sounds like a problem, it's not. It's an incredibly important feature. On every inhale, your heart rate rises slightly. On every exhale, it falls. Over and over, with every single breath, all day long (whether you notice it or not.) Heart Rate Variability: a key marker of nervous system health Heart rate variability (HRV) is the measurement of this fluctuation, specifically, the variation in time between consecutive heartbeats. RSA is one of the key mechanisms driving HRV. The more your heart rate...

If you've ever caught yourself looping on the same thought for the fifteenth time — replaying a conversation, spiralling on something you can't change, that low-grade mental noise that just won't quiet down — you already know that "just stop thinking about it" doesn't work. The harder you try, the louder it gets. Triangle breathing is what I reach for in those moments, to stop rumination: Inhale Hold Exhale Three equal sides. It's the technique I use most often, on myself and with clients, when the thinking has gone loopy. And the reason it works has everything to do with rhythm. I made a guided practice for it, which you'll find further down. First, the why. Rumination is a rhythm problem When you're stuck in a mental loop, two things are likely happening at the same time. Your thinking is on a treadmill. Same thought, same scenario, same circular logic, over and over. Your breathing has lost its rhythm. It's gone shallow. Gone fast. Gone irregular. The exhales cut short. The next inhale piles up on top of the last one. You probably haven't noticed any of this, because all your attention is on the thought. These two things aren't separate. They're feeding each other. Now, thoughts can...

20 May

In May, I ran a company-wide session on breathwork and nervous system regulation at Sofina, an investment holding company based in Brussels. The brief was simple: They wanted something experiential, with tools they could use the same day — for the boardroom, the negotiation, the 2 pm slump, the Sunday night when sleep won't come. What we did in nervous system regulation workshop Here's the frame I built the nervous system regulation session around: Nervous system regulation is your ability to match your internal state to what the present moment actually calls for. A board meeting calls for sharp and alert. A team lunch — relaxed, engaged. The drive home calls for proper winding-down. Most of us stay in the same gear regardless, usually hovering somewhere between wired and tired, never quite landing anywhere. So I started with showing the group the 'Arousal Continuum'. From panic on one end, through stressed, alert, calm, drowsy, all the way to freeze on the other. The question for the room: where do you spend most of your day? And — separately — where do you wish you spent it? Then we talked about the breath, and its connection to the Arousal Continuum. The breath i'ss the most direct lever we have on this continuum,...

Sometimes you can't step away. You're in the middle of a meeting You've just opened an email you weren't ready for Your kid is melting down and so are you You can feel the stress climbing (chest tightening, breath shortening, mind starting to spiral) and you have maybe ten seconds before you need to respond to whatever's in front of you. This is exactly the kind of moment the one-breath brake is designed for. One full breath cycle: One deep inhale A brief hold at the top One long exhale A pause at the bottom This simple breathing pattern can be enough to shift your physiology in the moment and help you find some stress relief. I made a short guided practice you'll find further down. But first, what's actually happening in those few seconds. Why one breath can shift your physiology There's a temptation to think a single breath can't possibly do anything. If you've ever been told to "take a deep breath" in a moment of stress and felt nothing change, you know the feeling. The reason that advice often falls flat is that one random deep breath doesn't do what people think it does. A big inhale right into the chest, taken on its own,...

15 May

In April, I spent a morning with the team at Data Tech Fund — a VC firm whose people are spread across the world and come together once a year for their annual offsite. They'd been in cognitively demanding work for a few days. Vision, strategy, big-picture thinking. By the time I arrived, what they needed was the opposite of that: less thinking, more body. What we did in this annual offsite breathwork workshop This was a purely experiential, somatic breathwork session. No slides. Just an hour of slowing down and exploring what a healthy, functional breathing pattern actually feels like, and why it matters for everything from brain function to recovery to sleep. The concept I most wanted them to walk away with was interoception—your brain's ability to sense what's happening inside your body. Heart rate, breath, muscle tension, gut activity. It's a skill that's massively undervalued, especially by highly cognitive, analytical people. And it's increasingly backed by research as one of the most important capacities you can train for self-regulation, decision-making, and emotional resilience. We spent more than an hour with our eyes closed, just feeling into the breath, the nervous system, and the sensory systems. One person was genuinely surprised it had...